Letters from a Stoic
LETTER II
On Reading & Focus
- Invest time in authors of undeniable talent; their works provide enduring mental sustenance.
- Constant travel creates many acquaintances but few genuine bonds.
- Skipping between writers without deep engagement yields shallow understanding.
Daily Practice
“Each day, too, acquire something which will help you to face poverty, or death, and other ills as well.”
- Reflect on multiple ideas, then thoroughly contemplate one each day.
On Poverty
“A cheerful poverty is an honourable state.” - Epicurus
- True poverty lies not in lacking abundance, but in perpetually desiring more.
LETTER III
Friendship
“If you are looking on anyone as a friend when you do not trust him as you trust yourself, you are making a grave mistake.”
- Deliberate carefully before admitting someone to your circle, then embrace them completely and speak candidly.
LETTER V
Against Performative Living
- Avoid behaviors designed to provoke comment about appearance or lifestyle choices.
- Don’t adopt extreme aesthetics—shabby clothes, unkempt grooming, or deliberate austerity—as self-promotion.
Balance
- Maintain inner authenticity while conforming outwardly to social norms.
- Seek moderation: neither ostentatious displays nor performative simplicity.
Related Concept: The author connects this to spiritual materialism—displaying false superiority through apparent asceticism.